Everyone wants things to improve. But most people don't like
it when things change. So, we have a problem.
Since all improvement implies a change, we both want, and
DON'T want, things to change.
Change is inevitable
Nothing stays the same forever. You can be sure that you
will have to manage change.
There are two important questions relating to the change:
Are you the one deciding the direction of change, or is change being
imposed upon you from outside?
Is the change going to be to your advantage, or to your disadvantage?
Let us look at each:
1. Are you the one deciding the
direction of change, or is change being imposed upon you from outside?
It is most important that you embrace the concept of change,
so that you can be the one who decides the direction of the change.
If you evade the responsibility of making the necessary
changes then you will not evade change, you will only transfer the decision
over the direction of the change to someone else.
In other words, if you don't decide to change, on your own
initiative, and in your own way, then you will have to accept the change that
is forced upon you, at a later date, by somebody else.
It is much better for you, if YOU are the person who makes
the pre-emptive decision to change the way you do things. In that way you remain
in control of your destiny.
If you default on this decision, then nothing seems to
happen for a while, and then the conditions around you will change and you will
be forced to adapt to an unpleasant circumstance.
For example: If you don't update your products and services
to remain at the sharp end of the market, then you will find that your
customers will go elsewhere and your financial position will change.
Or if you don't change your diet and exercise plan, then as
you get older, you will tend to gain weight and the reflection in the mirror
will not seem as appealing as it used to.
You get the idea?
The choice is: Change now, on your own terms, or have change
imposed upon you, later, NOT on your own terms.
2. Is the change going to be to your
advantage or to your disadvantage?
The second point is derived from the first point.
If you are the one who decides to make the change, then you
will select a change that will be an improvement on the current design.
For example: You may upgrade your computer software.
You may upgrade your exercise programme.
You may upgrade your wardrobe.
You may upgrade your car.
Whatever change you make it will cost you time, money and
inconvenience.
And you will have to go through the effort of learning to
cope with your new software, your new running programme, your new shoes, your
new gearbox.
But at least you are the one choosing it, and at least they
are all to your own advantage.
If you don't make the self-imposed changes, then next year,
when the imposed changes show themselves, you will have to suffer the pain of
dealing with changes that are not to your advantage.
When your old software fails to run the new programmes. When
your body-weight reaches an all-time high and you can't fit into your old
jeans, and when your car breaks down on the motorway. All in the same week.
Then this is when the world imposes disordered change upon
you.
This is not to your advantage.
The points I would like to leave in your memory are these
Change
is inevitable.
You
are better off taking change on your own terms, and in directions that you
choose.
Failure
to make changes does not absolve you of the need for change.
Failure
to change merely delays the need for change and takes the control of change out
of your hands and puts it in the hands of others.
The
change that is imposed upon you by others is more likely to be to your
disadvantage.
To ensure that change is to your own advantage, you need to
make the changes, today, on your own personal initiative.
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