Adolescent age is usually a diificult time for parents in the life of their children. Is your child rude and argumentative with you, but charm personified with others? Here are some guide on how to tame your teen.
Don’t be afraid:
Remember at all times that you are the parent: be decisive; be clear; be authoritative even if you don’t feel it.Have boundries and reinforce them.you can use such words like
“I expect you to speak to me in a friendly manner and not to growl at me.”
“I cannot listen to you when you use that tone Please start again and speak in a friendly manner.”
Don’t give threats:
you’ll lose credibility when you give threats because often times parents dont end up carrying out their threats. Just state your expectations, Over time, your teenage child will respect the setting of limits.
Repetition, repetition, repetition:
If you give up on your message, so will they. With repetition, you have every chance of success eventually. Each time your adolescent is disrespectful, restate your expectations, mildly and emphatically. You try such words like:
“I cannot hear you,” “Respect, please,” or “Call me when you can talk appropriately.
Partner power:
Get you partner or spouse involved.it’s vital you agree on values and expectations for your and work towrds it together.If you’re estranged from the other parent, it might be a bit diffucult but with tips ealier mentioned, you can also achieve success.
Walk the talk:
Practice what you preach: if you smoke, don’t expect your children not to do the same.
Most importantly, never stop loving your child. Over time, love and a deep connection will motivate even the most difficult adolescent to try to please you. So try to do things together, get in touch with your adolescent. When you have done you part, then relax your mind and let God do the rest.
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